PREAMBLE

William Shakespeare in Act V of his “Macbeth” wrote:

“Life is but a walking Shadow, a poor Player That
struts and frets his Hour upon the Stage,
And then is heard no more;
It is a tall tale, told by an Idiot,
full of Sound and Fury, Signifying nothing."

If we accepted this concept, then Life loses all its meaning and we are reduced to a pathetic, sorry state where, as many do believe, we are born, we live and die without any reason, any purpose.

I completely reject this position. To me, life is not a random series of transient, overlapping, unrelated experiences, destined to be consigned to oblivion upon completion. I believe instead, life is a precious expression of a greater plan in which our time spent on earth is but a short segment of a journey which began in eternity and will continue to eternity.

Throughout history this question has been the subject of much philosophical, scientific and theological speculation. There have been a large number of differing, conflicting and diverging answers reflecting the various cultural and ideological backgrounds, clearly indicating the true complexity of the problem. In my opinion, there will never be an answer that will satisfy every one, and so it should be. In the end, each one of us must arrive at our individual position and as such apply this to the expression of our own life. For it is only by understanding our own self, can we really appreciate the true meaning of our life.

For me, one of the most eloquent, complete and comprehensive description of Life and it's purpose, is this description by Mother Teresa:

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is a beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it!”

With this in mind, in this blog I propose to briefly deal with random aspects of life as I have experienced them along the way. It is certainly not meant to be a guide for you to follow, but rather a reference that you may use as you see fit. I will also include quotations specially selected for each subject because of their impact upon me, and for no other reason.

I welcome your comments, criticisms and suggestions and active participation.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

LIFE AND YOU (I)

Editor's Note:
The following is a random collection on the meaning of life based on
quotations from the greatest authors and philosophers over the ages.
The interpretations are strictly those of the editor, but the message is
universal and worthy of serious consideration.


1.
“If you want to know the past, to know what has caused you;
Look at yourself in the Present, for that is the past's effect.
If you want to know your future, then look at yourself in the Present;
For that is the cause of the future."

The above quotation taken from the Majjhima Nikaya, the Buddhist holy book, speaks volumes to anyone in search of self determination. The message is both simple and profound.
You are the collective unconsciousness of all that has gone before you, and within you lies everything that has occurred in the past that has caused you to be who you are. Like the rings in the great oak tree that tells us everything, good and bad, that has occurred over the centuries of its life, so too are you, a true reflection of your past.
Therefore it is vitally important that you spend time to reflect on all that has gone before you and to learn from this who you really are and where you want to be. For without this knowledge, your future will be nothing but a random series of encounters without reason and without direction and your journey through life will be that of the lowly ant;
You arrive, you live and you die and you leave a void
to be filled by the next ant.
Instead, your life will have true meaning only if you understand whom you really are, what your role is meant to be and above all, you follow the path laid out for you, to reach the glory that you are destined to be.

2.
"When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project,
all your thoughts break their bonds:
our mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction,
and you find yourself in a new, great, and wonderful world.
Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive,
and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far
than you ever dreamed yourself to be."

These words, contained in a brief introductory statement in the enormously influential Yoga Sutras, acknowledged as the foundational text of Yoga, crystallize the wisdom of one of India's greatest philosophers Patanjali.
The fundamental aim of Yoga is to assist us to attain a better understanding of ourselves, and to achieve a higher level of awareness and enlightenment. By encountering and transcending all our weaknesses and our inadequacies, we are able to unleash a more confident and comfortable attitude in our lives and exercise better control of our environment.
All of us will have no difficulty in identifying people in our lives whose actions we have admired and respected. We have tended to assign special status to these people and place them in special categories. But the truth is that we all possess the potential to transcend our limitations. We need only to find the key to unlock the energy within us, to control the negative shackles that bind us and to release the power within us.
Yoga, by a system of profound meditation and self evaluation, is designed to release these energies and assist us to arrive at that exalted position of union of the body, the mind and the spirit where our true self emerges.
But the truth is that we do not need to be practitioners of Yoga to achieve our full potential. What we do need however, is a process of systematically identifying, encountering and overcoming each of our negative constraints, neutralizing their impact upon us and thus allowing the free spirit to come alive.
To achieve this, we must begin by adopting a sense of purpose and direction, and to working diligently to achieve this. Whichever you choose however, must be consistent with the basic principles of life and the natural laws of nature of doing no harm to others, recognizing the unity of all living beings and a sense of universal humanity.
This is, and has always been, the underlying principle of all the great religions of the world and one which will carry you to the pinnacle of your potential.




3.
"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness.
Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost."

Often quoted by His Holiness Dalai Lama, this statement is a powerful indictment of the hypocrisy and prejudice that exists in the world. We are quick to judge others who appear or think or act different than us. We have all grown up with such deep seated prejudices that we instinctly believe that what we do is always correct and therefore anything that is different is likely to be wrong.
No one really takes the time to teach us that in nature there are invariably many solutions to an existing situation, and that they are all correct. This single omission is directly responsible for all the tragedies, all the suffering, all the antagonisms that exist between and among individuals, groups, communities and nations.
It is a lot easier to blame others for our own shortcomings and distinctly more convenient to maintain power and control by projecting the difference in others as a threat to survival.
Throughout the ages in every society and among all peoples of the world, there has occurred such vast and unwarranted suffering in the name of difference than in anything else. We have used the excuse of race, religion, appearance and social status to perpetrate these atrocities and continue to do so presently.
Yet the fundamental truth is that our lives will become so much more fulfilled if we begin to set aside our fears and prejudices and learn to accept all others for who they really are, rather than who we think they might be.
A life dominated by love and understanding, rather than the present distrust and fear should be the unequivocal goal of all who genuinely seek the true nirvana .


4.

"Too many of us are not living our dreams,
because we are living our fears."

This quotation attributed to the American motivational speaker, Les Brown, has always been one of my favorites. During my many years of medical practice I have had innumerable opportunities to refer to it with my patients to illustrate a fundamental truth.
There is no doubt in my mind that at some time or another we have all fallen victim of failing to achieve our dream because of fear and anxiety. As a result we suffer significant loss and regret. In fact it represents the single most important factor which limits human behavior and compromises the choice of action.
We see it in so many situations; when the child holds back from jumping into the pool, or riding the bicycle or approaching the teacher because of the fear of failure. We also see it when we avoid accepting a challenge or stepping forward to assist because we may falter, or when we fail to comment on a situation to avoid embarrassment or to hurt others. The outcome of all of these inevitably leaves a sense of dissatisfaction and regret.
In the wider picture when we deliberately submerge our deepest desires, hopes and dreams of achieving a goal because of a paralysis of fear or inadequacy, we inevitably suffer pangs of regret and negativity that leave scars and compromise further action, affecting even our psyche.
The answer to this state of mind involves first being honest to yourself and recognize your failing, and then converting this insight into positive action by developing a sense of direction and purpose and acting in faith until confidence is restored.
Without this, we will end up like so many people, drifting hopelessly in the seas of despair subjected to the tides and winds around us and seeking help from anyone and everyone.