PREAMBLE

William Shakespeare in Act V of his “Macbeth” wrote:

“Life is but a walking Shadow, a poor Player That
struts and frets his Hour upon the Stage,
And then is heard no more;
It is a tall tale, told by an Idiot,
full of Sound and Fury, Signifying nothing."

If we accepted this concept, then Life loses all its meaning and we are reduced to a pathetic, sorry state where, as many do believe, we are born, we live and die without any reason, any purpose.

I completely reject this position. To me, life is not a random series of transient, overlapping, unrelated experiences, destined to be consigned to oblivion upon completion. I believe instead, life is a precious expression of a greater plan in which our time spent on earth is but a short segment of a journey which began in eternity and will continue to eternity.

Throughout history this question has been the subject of much philosophical, scientific and theological speculation. There have been a large number of differing, conflicting and diverging answers reflecting the various cultural and ideological backgrounds, clearly indicating the true complexity of the problem. In my opinion, there will never be an answer that will satisfy every one, and so it should be. In the end, each one of us must arrive at our individual position and as such apply this to the expression of our own life. For it is only by understanding our own self, can we really appreciate the true meaning of our life.

For me, one of the most eloquent, complete and comprehensive description of Life and it's purpose, is this description by Mother Teresa:

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is a beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it!”

With this in mind, in this blog I propose to briefly deal with random aspects of life as I have experienced them along the way. It is certainly not meant to be a guide for you to follow, but rather a reference that you may use as you see fit. I will also include quotations specially selected for each subject because of their impact upon me, and for no other reason.

I welcome your comments, criticisms and suggestions and active participation.

Monday, March 8, 2010

LIFE WITH CHOICES

I recently received the following short story from my son about life, and the choices you can make. It has so impressed me with its simple yet powerful wisdom that I felt it was worthy of passing on to every one who finds himself in need. I do not know the source which for the time being, remains unknown. It is reproduced exactly as I received it;
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A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed that as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each one on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and in the last one she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

After about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished out the carrots and placed them in a bowl. She then pulled the eggs out and placed in another bowl, then ladled the coffee out and placed it into a third bowl. Turning to her daughter she asked, “Tell me what you see?”

“Carrots, eggs and coffee” the daughter replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did, and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked her to take an egg, break it and remove the shell. She observed it to be hard boiled. Finally, the mother asked her to sip the coffee. After sipping it, she smile as she enjoyed the rich aroma of the coffee.

Puzzled, the daughter asked: “What does all this mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that this is a lesson in life. Each of these objects had faced the same adversity, boiling water and each had reacted differently.
----The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting, but after being subjected to boiling water came out softened and weak.
----The egg was fragile and needed the outer shell to protect its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, it became hardened and dry.
----The ground coffee beans were unique however, for after they were in the boiling water, they actually changed the water into something much more pleasing.

After a short pause, she looked at her daughter and slowly asked her:

“When adversity knocks on your door, how will you respond?
Will you be a Carrot, an Egg or a Coffee Bean?”

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