PREAMBLE

William Shakespeare in Act V of his “Macbeth” wrote:

“Life is but a walking Shadow, a poor Player That
struts and frets his Hour upon the Stage,
And then is heard no more;
It is a tall tale, told by an Idiot,
full of Sound and Fury, Signifying nothing."

If we accepted this concept, then Life loses all its meaning and we are reduced to a pathetic, sorry state where, as many do believe, we are born, we live and die without any reason, any purpose.

I completely reject this position. To me, life is not a random series of transient, overlapping, unrelated experiences, destined to be consigned to oblivion upon completion. I believe instead, life is a precious expression of a greater plan in which our time spent on earth is but a short segment of a journey which began in eternity and will continue to eternity.

Throughout history this question has been the subject of much philosophical, scientific and theological speculation. There have been a large number of differing, conflicting and diverging answers reflecting the various cultural and ideological backgrounds, clearly indicating the true complexity of the problem. In my opinion, there will never be an answer that will satisfy every one, and so it should be. In the end, each one of us must arrive at our individual position and as such apply this to the expression of our own life. For it is only by understanding our own self, can we really appreciate the true meaning of our life.

For me, one of the most eloquent, complete and comprehensive description of Life and it's purpose, is this description by Mother Teresa:

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is a beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it!”

With this in mind, in this blog I propose to briefly deal with random aspects of life as I have experienced them along the way. It is certainly not meant to be a guide for you to follow, but rather a reference that you may use as you see fit. I will also include quotations specially selected for each subject because of their impact upon me, and for no other reason.

I welcome your comments, criticisms and suggestions and active participation.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

LIFE'S OPPORTUNITIES

“There is a tide in the affairs of men,
Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune.
Omitted, all the voyage of their life is bound in shallows and in miseries.”

This quote taken from William Shakespeare’s Julius Caesar epitomizes the real meaning of Opportunity.
Opportunity is defined as a chance or possibility arising from a combination of favorable circumstances. In life, opportunities present themselves to everyone, but only those who are ready or make themselves available will achieve the greatest success. Very rarely does an opportunity succeed without active participation of the participant, nor do they go to fruition without positive and active effort. In a way it is not the opportunity itself, but how one deals with it, that defines a person.
Opportunities are not reserved for the select few. They are certainly not just for the wealthy, intelligent, endowed or creative thinkers. Nor for that matter are they just lucky random occurrences. We are all constantly surrounded with a variety of opportunities ranging from small, locally affecting events, to others which could have an impact on people around us, as well some that could change the course of our life. The difference lies in how perceptive we are in responding. Clearly the kind of opportunity depends on individual circumstances. The wealthy are better able to benefit from financial opportunities, and the talented would be more successful in the arts, but everyone has the chance to benefit in their own way.
In life, the key is to understand and accept that opportunities are available to everyone, not just a few, but those who recognize and work for them are the ones who achieve the most. We can all relate to situations where an opportunity goes unrecognized because of our lack of attention or sensitivity.
History is overflowing with instances of successful use of opportunity and equally, of people who have failed the chance. It is not just a hit or miss situation. The ones who succeed are the ones who display a certain positivism, a strength and optimism of attitude towards life and achievement.
The answer therefore does not lie the common practice of envying the success of those who profited from their opportunities, but rather to learn from them, be motivated by them and be ready when your chance appears. Helen Keller, the great American author, activist and teacher, who despite being deaf/blind from birth ,stands out as a brilliant beacon of the successful use of opportunities for achievement against insurmountable odds, stated:
“ When one door closes, another opens.
But we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door,
that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”
In the end, rather than envy others who have successfully converted their opportunities, let us instead remember that even if our effort fails and you fall to the ground, rather that wallow in self pity, look around for there may well be a better opportunity waiting for you.

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Opportunities are never lost;
Someone always takes the one you miss.
…..Author Unknown

Many an Opportunity is lost because a man is out looking for four-leaf clovers.
......Author Unknown
The secret of success in life is for a man
to be ready for his opportunity when it comes.
……Benjamin Disraeli

A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds.
…….Francis Bacon

Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work,
So most people don't recognize them.
……Anne Landers

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